How have the 'Big Wedding' industry managed to so completely brainwash both the Women of Ireland and the lilly livered saps who don't stand up for sanity
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Originally posted by Raoul Duke III View Postthe average would be over €20k actually....(speaking from experience, sounds about right)
We did everything, from engagement ring to honeymoon, and everything in between for far less than that.
Two days after our wedding a good friend of mine got married, turned out afterwards that his reception came to €35k on it's own
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Originally posted by bohsman View PostIt's horrible sitting around waiting for our department to be done tomorrow. Just want it to be over at this stage.
I know it's hard for all working there but there's also a load of other indirect employment going to be lost from both this place and others. The company i work for provide the waste service's for both Pocket kings and the building that some of the Avia work is in, We're not goin to lose the jobs over it but it is a nasty enough sting to the company. With places like these with a lot of stuff outsourced there's going to be more jobs lost that will never hit the papers!
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Originally posted by A_CitizenErased View PostIs Michael D Higgins value at 11/10?
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Originally posted by Raoul Duke III View Posteven for one of my reactionary ways, this is too much
create an appropriate sentencing framework and get on with it
Something like the dangerous driving causing death issue has absolutely nothing to do with judges by the way. The DPP choose the indictments and the Oireachtas set the penalties in the Road Traffic Act 1961 (as amended), Section 53 (2)(a).You are technically correct...the best kind of correct
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Originally posted by Strewelpeter View PostHow have the 'Big Wedding' industry managed to so completely brainwash both the Women of Ireland and the lilly livered saps who don't stand up for sanity
I think we had 140 at ours (after quite a bit of downward negotiation with various female parties ) and it cost in the region of 20k. Nice hotel, nice meal, good band and DJ - nothing completely over the top. It was the add-ons that were more mind-boggling than the 'big stuff'; the price of photographers is insane. Would imagine things have come down a fair bit since those Tiger days."We are not Europeans. Those people on the continent are freaks."
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Originally posted by Hitchhiker's Guide to... View PostHow would that average €20k bill be paid? Father of the bride / personal savings / made back in presents cash?"We are not Europeans. Those people on the continent are freaks."
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Originally posted by Hitchhiker's Guide to... View PostSlightly exceptional circumstances here, but we spent about €400 and ended up with quite a bit of cash in the bank to help pay for Lily's stuff. In fairness, couldn't even afford new shoes for the event, so that was about the limit of what we could stretch to! You'd think that should be how it is though; almost like a last big present to the couple to set them up for their life together.
How would that average €20k bill be paid? Father of the bride / personal savings / made back in presents cash?
OOh I remember sitting on the bed in the hotel room and every card we opened had 200 quid in it, I barely read who the cards were from just kept throwing the money in the air, it was very like the scene from Indecent Proposal
My close friends and family paid for things like the Band, punchbowel reception nibbles etc, Dj.
My cousin who was my bridesmaid was chef in Dundrum house hotel where we got married at the time and we got loads of reductions and freebies, was a great day.
went on honeymoon and blew an absolute fortune, even bought furniture and had to get it shipped home.Her sky-ness
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Originally posted by zuutroy View PostHeritage in Laois?People say I should be more humble I hope they understand, they don't listen when you mumble
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Originally posted by Hitchhiker's Guide to... View PostWould you have been down from that €20k then after present money? (assuming not too personal a question! just curious really)"We are not Europeans. Those people on the continent are freaks."
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Originally posted by The Situation View PostPeople probably terrified to be associated with the death, not condoning but I couldn't be too harsh on them as you'd never know how youd react in such a situation.
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Originally posted by Gimmeabreakexactly, typically the father of the groom has to stump up half of it.
will just have to make sure I'm busto by then
Smullen beaten into second in the last, how unfortunate"We are not Europeans. Those people on the continent are freaks."
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Originally posted by Hitchhiker's Guide to... View PostBarbeque back in the house ftw! Maybe I'm trying to retrospectively justify my own appallingly badly organised wedding, but find it shocking that people would contemplate spending maybe €10k (or more?) on a party for other people.
I'm still trying to work on doing the whole shebang in warmer climes which would cost a fraction of the price.
Hotel circa €55-85 per person
DJ
Band
Cake
Suits
Dress
Fucking Table Clothes & Chair Covers
Backdrop
Centerpiece
Cars
Church/Civil charges
Those little gifts for each table
Table Setting layout thing
Invites
Photographer
it just goes on and on....
The whole industry is a con
I'd consider myself very lucky to get away with 10KPeople say I should be more humble I hope they understand, they don't listen when you mumble
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Originally posted by Hitchhiker's Guide to... View PostKind of at back of head at moment as daughter has just started smiling. I'm there thinking 'ffs, how am I ever going to be able to say no to that smile?!'
use a combination of onenote and Powerpoint. She'll have given up interest by the time you get to the star wipe final slide.Is that how you crash a wedding? yes it is, Bionic Barry, yes it is.
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Originally posted by Raoul Duke III View Postanything for a quiet life
I think we had 140 at ours (after quite a bit of downward negotiation with various female parties ) and it cost in the region of 20k. Nice hotel, nice meal, good band and DJ - nothing completely over the top. It was the add-ons that were more mind-boggling than the 'big stuff'; the price of photographers is insane. Would imagine things have come down a fair bit since those Tiger days.
Weddings price's are f'ing redic, I think it come's down to people having been at a friends wwedding they have to out them kind of attiude and it just keeps going!!
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Originally posted by Hitchhiker's Guide to... View PostAny link to one of those studies? Heard it before and find that type of research fascinating.
There are some excellent studies available that I can't link to but this study from the Australian Institute of Criminology is fairly interesting. Obviously people disagree mostly on sex crimes but overall it's a positive outcome for the judges if you ask me and Australia would have a very comparable system to our own.You are technically correct...the best kind of correct
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Originally posted by Flushdraw View PostEh i can be 99.999% sure that i'd run over broken glass in my bare feet if i saw a baby getting run over by a lorry and people were walking past ignoring it.
If I turned a corner and saw a man with a dieing child in his hands I'd at least suspect him a little, anyone would. You're definitely putting yourself in a vunerable position helping this kid, so as cold as it sounds I kind of understand how people would choose to ignore it in the heat of the moment even though I think I would have personally helped.Profit before people.
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Originally posted by Flushdraw View PostEh i can be 99.999% sure that i'd run over broken glass in my bare feet if i saw a baby getting run over by a lorry and people were walking past ignoring it.
2-3 people is the nut size of a crowd to be around. Anymore than that and you get differed responsibility.You are technically correct...the best kind of correct
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Originally posted by Raoul Duke III View Postwe arrived by boat (free too)
People say I should be more humble I hope they understand, they don't listen when you mumble
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I also find it hilarious that some of the features mentioned of certain hotels include;
use of microphone and use of cake stand/knife.
Like that's a big fucking deal
GTFOPeople say I should be more humble I hope they understand, they don't listen when you mumble
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Originally posted by DeadParrot View PostIt literally is vomit inducing.
I'm still trying to work on doing the whole shebang in warmer climes which would cost a fraction of the price.
HotelReal good restaurant circa €40-60 per person including wine
DJiPod
Bandmake friends with a few musicians and a trad session group
CakeWho the fuck eats cake at a wedding these days?
Suits As long as they aren't fancy dress your fine
Dress - OK we'll let her have that
Fucking Table Clothes & Chair CoversGTFO
Backdrop
CenterpieceWTF
Cars
Church/Civil charges
Those little gifts for each tableGTFO but can be done better and with panache for free with a bit of imagination
Table Setting layout thing
Invites See gifts above... if invites are costing more than €1 each there is something hideously wrong
PhotographerHire someone competent for two hours one at the ceremony and one afterwards
it just goes on and on....
The whole industry is a con
I'd consider myself very lucky to get away with 10K
Consultancy fee to followTurning millions into thousands
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Originally posted by DeadParrot View PostIt literally is vomit inducing.
I'm still trying to work on doing the whole shebang in warmer climes which would cost a fraction of the price.
Hotel circa €55-85 per person
DJ
Band either the DJ will know a good band or the band will know a good DJ, Just get a standard band as they'll be just singing standard wedding songs!
Cake should also get cake stand for free, my sister got married in the good time's and she spent close to 12k, 8 of which went to the hotel - cheek of them to charge for a stand and a knife WTF
Suits cant help - obv rent suit though
Dress standard shit load of money unless u get lucky
Fucking Table Clothes & Chair Covers should get for free
Backdrop
Centerpiece Hotel should have a good deal on these with the people they use normally, then demand lower
Cars I Know some people both around portlaoise and dublin and i could get you some price's, One guy has a bentley (new shape which is nice)
Church/Civil charges
Those little gifts for each table No gifts, sure aren;t they getting fed for feck sake
Table Setting layout thing this should be free suppplied by the hotel
Invites Email lol,
Photographer check out borad's photo area loads of people up there looking for work and you can pick up some good photographer
it just goes on and on....
The whole industry is a con
I'd consider myself very lucky to get away with 10K
also it's your day enjoy dont give a fcuk what everone else thinks or wants
ps keep parents out of it they ended up costing me 10k FML
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Originally posted by Zod View Postpfft, I'd expect Raul and the missus arrived in a yacht straight out of a Spandau Ballet video."We are not Europeans. Those people on the continent are freaks."
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Originally posted by Keane View PostWas it in the village itself or back towards the Maherees?
If it was in the village it was probably Natterjacks, if it was outside it was probably Spillanes, which has to be one of the greatest places in the world to spend a sunny evening.
EDIT: Google Streetview is the stone cold nuts!
Actually, now that i remember, we were walking back to the B&B that night/morning and I have never seen a sky like it before, must have been a mixture of being out on a penninsulla and the lack of lights that made for the greatest night sky i have ever seen !!
It would be worth it to go down there again just to see that stary sky again.This too shall pass.
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Originally posted by Kayroo View PostJust to give some context to the subject here is the Law Reform Commission's Consultation Paper on Sentencing
There are some excellent studies available that I can't link to but this study from the Australian Institute of Criminology is fairly interesting. Obviously people disagree mostly on sex crimes but overall it's a positive outcome for the judges if you ask me and Australia would have a very comparable system to our own.
http://www.aic.gov.au/documents/A/B/7/{AB703D46-E913-4384-B3DB-646DC27EF2D3}tandi407.pdfYou are technically correct...the best kind of correct
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Originally posted by Strewelpeter View Post.
Consultancy fee to follow
Trying to pull a no cake, no dj, no photographer etc wedding, would not be worth my life.People say I should be more humble I hope they understand, they don't listen when you mumble
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Originally posted by pgodkin View PostSee above, key is just keep jamming down the price's and dont either of you get attached to paticular band or phtographer etc
also it's your day enjoy dont give a fcuk what everone else thinks or wants
ps keep parents out of it they ended up costing me 10k FML
we seem to be doing everything wrong.
Wedding band of choice is
People say I should be more humble I hope they understand, they don't listen when you mumble
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Originally posted by DeadParrot View Post
I think you are similar in age to me and if so you will love them! Every memorable 90's tune covered.
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Originally posted by eoghan104 View PostThey are fantastic.
I think you are similar in age to me and if so you will love them! Every memorable 90's tune covered.
Decision was made there and then, they were the wedding band.People say I should be more humble I hope they understand, they don't listen when you mumble
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Originally posted by DeadParrot View PostIt literally is vomit inducing.
I'm still trying to work on doing the whole shebang in warmer climes which would cost a fraction of the price.
Hotel circa €55-85 per person
DJ
Band
Cake
Suits
Dress
Fucking Table Clothes & Chair Covers
Backdrop
Centerpiece
Cars
Church/Civil charges
Those little gifts for each table
Table Setting layout thing
Invites
Photographer
it just goes on and on....
The whole industry is a con
I'd consider myself very lucky to get away with 10K
For the cake, M&S do them and get some lovely ribbon to match the bridesmaids dress colour and a decoration for the top and stick it on the hotels cake stand. Costs about £110 for a 3 layer cake.
Shop about for music. Go to wedding fayres at hotels as you get to see what they offer.
I gave your missus a great budget calculator site. You don't have to spend a fortune to have a nice wedding. You can do it at a good price without going tacky.
As for who pays. Long gone are the days when either parents pay up! it is usually down to the couple these days.
I told your missus as well that I travelled to Scotland for my wedding dress and going back for the bridesmaids dresses as they are 200% cheaper there for the bridesmaid dresses alone. Don't be buying ANY thing in Dublin and if she wants some ideas tell her to message me
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Originally posted by Hitchhiker's Guide to... View PostShould organise an IPB poker weekend for Castlegregory! About 20 people will fit in the hostel for about a tenner a night and the rest can be scattered around B&Bs / stranded on the beach. A weekend of a few different live games, but mainly epic beering.
The wifes birthday in 2 weeks and i booked us a break in the Sneem hotel down there, I dont think I have ever drove the ring of kerry !
Originally posted by Raoul Duke III View Postdon't think anyone really expects the bride's family to spring for the wedding anymore!This too shall pass.
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Originally posted by MrsFlushdraw View PostThose meals are way overpriced DP! 40 quid a head is above average but then again we are looking at local prices.
For the cake, M&S do them and get some lovely ribbon to match the bridesmaids dress colour and a decoration for the top and stick it on the hotels cake stand. Costs about £110 for a 3 layer cake.
Shop about for music. Go to wedding fayres at hotels as you get to see what they offer.
I gave your missus a great budget calculator site. You don't have to spend a fortune to have a nice wedding. You can do it at a good price without going tacky.
As for who pays. Long gone are the days when either parents pay up! it is usually down to the couple these days.
I told your missus as well that I travelled to Scotland for my wedding dress and going back for the bridesmaids dresses as they are 200% cheaper there for the bridesmaid dresses alone. Don't be buying ANY thing in Dublin and if she wants some ideas tell her to message meThis too shall pass.
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Buskers.
Generally, rule one of busking is to do something that entertains the maximum number of people who will walk past you, and entertain them enough to give you a few coins.
You can do this by playing crowd pleasing hits or doing something ordiary in an extraordinary way
Today I watched a proto-funk two piece playing a 20 minute long jam session on bass and drums to a bunch of bewildered tourists at the bottom of Grafton Street.
Some people may like Rush-esque proto jazz-funk explorations, but they are the few and far between and unlikely to be passing by Grafton St at lunchtime.
I actually felt more likely to critique them in a piece for the Dubliner than give them spare change.
Plus, they weren't great and the Basist had a 5 string which immediately marked him out as a show off.Is that how you crash a wedding? yes it is, Bionic Barry, yes it is.
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The Heritage is a lovely hotel but the food service and quality was very poor just fyi. 'No sir, you may only have the toasted sandwiches which are on the menu, you can't choose your own combination of fillings' in a 5 star hotel?! GTFO!
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Originally posted by zuutroy View PostThe Heritage is a lovely hotel but the food service and quality was very poor just fyi. 'No sir, you may only have the toasted sandwiches which are on the menu, you can't choose your own combination of fillings' in a 5 star hotel?! GTFO!Is that how you crash a wedding? yes it is, Bionic Barry, yes it is.
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Originally posted by oleras View PostKills me to say it but kerry really is a nice place.
The wifes birthday in 2 weeks and i booked us a break in the Sneem hotel down there, I dont think I have ever drove the ring of kerry !
Liam is still class though obv.
I've yet to come across anywhere as aesthetically incredible as Kerry, and wouldn't be too surprised if I never do.Last edited by Keane; 19-10-11, 16:25.
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Originally posted by Keane View PostScenic drives in Kerry can be compared to Oasis, with the Ring of Kerry being Liam - the mouthy, flashy one that everyone always hears about - while the [urlhttp://www.dingle-peninsula.ie/sleahead.html]Slea Head Drive[/url] being like Noel, the one anybody who knows anything knows is the real jewel in the crown.
Liam is still class though obv.
I've yet to come across anywhere as aesthetically incredible as Kerry, and wouldn't be too surprised if I never do.
Spend as much time there as I can.
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Originally posted by The Situation View PostEveryone is a hero in the hypothetical! Most if not all the people walking by in the video didn't actually see her getting run over, they just passed her by in the few minutes afterwards.
If I turned a corner and saw a man with a dieing child in his hands I'd at least suspect him a little, anyone would. You're definitely putting yourself in a vunerable position helping this kid, so as cold as it sounds I kind of understand how people would choose to ignore it in the heat of the moment even though I think I would have personally helped.
I bent down and the lady was covered in blood. She was woozy from the fall and her medication and didn't know what happened. The son seemed shocked and didn't know what to do. I told him to ring an ambulance while I tried to help the old lady. I seen she couldn't breathe and noticed blood clots where getting stuck in her throat so I had to get them out with my hand(not a nice feeling but had to be done) The son then said lift her on her feet. I told him not to, that she might have unknown injuries and that slipping may jacket under her head is the most we should do till the ambulance arrives.
I spend the next 30 minutes wiping blood from this womans face and pulling blood cloths out whenever she needs to. And I know what your thinking, why the fuck did she bleed for that long. She took to much of her blood thining meds before leaving and that's why she fainted. The son stood there like a useless plank.
TL DR. I helped a stranger when I didn't have to and would do it again.
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Originally posted by MegaSin View PostI remember sometime last year coming out of college waiting at the bus stop. I seen this old man and woman across the road. Woman was at least 90 and the old man in his 70's, anyway next thing I know the old lady fainted but came down right on her face hard. Before I knew it I was running across the road which looking back on it is silly cause I have zero medical training or know how. I managed to get to the old lady before who a later found out was her son.
I bent down and the lady was covered in blood. She was woozy from the fall and her medication and didn't know what happened. The son seemed shocked and didn't know what to do. I told him to ring an ambulance while I tried to help the old lady. I seen she couldn't breathe and noticed blood clots where getting stuck in her throat so I had to get them out with my hand(not a nice feeling but had to be done) The son then said lift her on her feet. I told him not to, that she might have unknown injuries and that slipping may jacket under her head is the most we should do till the ambulance arrives.
I spend the next 30 minutes wiping blood from this womans face and pulling blood cloths out whenever she needs to. And I know what your thinking, why the fuck did she bleed for that long. She took to much of her blood thining meds before leaving and that's why she fainted. The son stood there like a useless plank.
TL DR. I helped a stranger when I didn't have to and would do it again.
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